Friday, November 04, 2005
was talking to chai hong and brian (^^) about confidence on msn. so think i'll share it with all you people and maybe, help out some of the
OOPS i mean people in need of self confidence. ^^ *cough cough* listen up.
there are 3 different kinds of people. the 3 different kinds of people look at people and talk to them in 3 different ways.
the first kind. this group of people, they're forever having a negative mindset. they think that they're inferior and at a level below the rest. when they talk to others, they are forever looking up to people. not as in respect, but as in looking up because they feel unworthy and lousy.
the second kind. this group of people, they're forever having a positive mindset. however, they are overly positive. such that they become complacent and arrogant. they think that they are the best and the cream of the crop. when they talk to others, they always look down on people. they talk to others as if they are superior in every way. these people think that things will turn out good forever.
the third kind. this group of people, they have a positive mindset, but they don't abuse their optimism. they are confident about themselves, but they never ever look down on people. they treat every single person who deserves respect with respect. they know their potential and talents but never show it off to discourage others. when they talk to others, they always look at people at eye-level. they also think that people exist with equal status. they are confident of themselves and they dare to show how they really feel.
so.. it's really up to you to decide who you want to be. confidence is about being yourself, and daring to show people that you are YOU and no one else. confidence is about daring to show people that you are satisfied and happy with who you are. showing people that you don't need trends to follow to become a part of the society. daring to tell people that you are capable and unique. and therefore, you will not become part of the society but you'll create your own part of the society.
*curtseys* thank you, thank you. now, wasn't that great? lalala~ my ego is acting up again.
just did it at 9:25 PM